Air Date: 04/10/12 A child's development occurs in the context of relationships with family. What really matters in child development is a secure attachment and comfort in knowing that they belong regardless of whether or not they live up to expectations. As they axiom goes, perception is reality. This week, Cheryl discusses how children sometimes only hear the rules and consequences. And no matter what it's important that your child knows you're concerned about their behavior because you love them. Knowledge of unconditional love is often times the most important thing a parent can offer. Parenting with Cheryl Erwine airs every Tuesday morning on 88.7 FM, KUNR, and can be reached at 775-331-6723 or firstname.lastname@example.org.