'I Could Not Allow That To Stand': Ocasio-Cortez Rebukes Republican For Vulgar Insult

Jul 23, 2020
Originally published on July 24, 2020 4:24 am

Updated at 1:26 p.m. ET

Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, D-N.Y., took to the House floor Thursday morning to admonish the insults hurled at her by Rep. Ted Yoho, R-Fla., earlier this week.

Yoho confronted Ocasio-Cortez on the steps of the Capitol on Monday, Ocasio-Cortez said, calling her "disgusting" for linking poverty to crime rates in New York City.

"I was minding my own business walking up the steps, and Rep. Yoho put his finger in my face. He called me disgusting. He called me crazy. He called me out of my mind. And he called me dangerous," she said.

The congresswoman said she told Yoho his comments were rude and walked away to cast her vote. Then, as The Hill first reported, Yoho was overheard using a vulgar insult often aimed at women.

"There were reporters in the front of the Capitol, and in front of reporters Rep. Yoho called me, and I quote, a 'f*****g bitch,' " she said.

Ocasio-Cortez said Yoho was accompanied by Rep. Roger Williams, R-Texas, who did not interject on her behalf but instead joined in on insulting her. Williams has denied hearing or participating in the incident.

Ocasio-Cortez, a key voice in the progressive movement and a frequent target of Republicans, said that kind of verbal abuse isn't new and she's concerned about an increasing acceptance of dehumanizing and misogynistic language toward women.

"This issue is not about one incident. It is cultural. It is a culture of lack of impunity, of accepting of violence and violent language against women and an entire structure of power that supports that," she said.

Watch her remarks here. (Note: The video includes the profanity.)

Yoho reflected on his comments a day earlier on the House floor. Without naming Ocasio-Cortez, Yoho apologized for the "abrupt manner of the conversation I had with my colleague from New York."

He said he "cannot apologize for my passion" over the issue of poverty, having experienced it himself.

On the allegation that he used a pejorative, Yoho said, "Having been married for 45 years with two daughters, I'm very cognizant of my language. The offensive name-calling, words attributed to me by the press, were never spoken to my colleagues, and if they were construed that way, I apologize for their misunderstanding."

Ocasio-Cortez said Yoho's comments on Wednesday prompted her to address the controversy. She described his remarks as making "excuses for his behavior."

"I could not allow my nieces, I could not allow the little girls that I go home to, I could not allow victims of verbal abuse, and worse, to see that. To see that excuse, and see our Congress accept it as legitimate and accept it as an apology and to accept silence as a form of acceptance. I could not allow that to stand," she said.

She reprimanded Yoho for using his family members as a "shield" for his foul language.

"Having a daughter does not make a man decent. Having a wife does not make a decent man. Treating people with dignity and respect makes a decent man. And when a decent man messes up, as we all are bound to do, he tries his best and does apologize," she said.

"I am someone's daughter, too. My father, thankfully, is not alive to see how Mr. Yoho treated his daughter," she went on to say. "My mother got to see Mr. Yoho's disrespect on the floor of this House towards me on television. And I am here because I have to show my parents that I am their daughter and that they did not raise me to accept abuse from men."

Following Ocasio-Cortez's remarks, Democratic colleagues joined in condemning Yoho's comments and called on him to issue a formal apology.

"What my colleague from Florida did was unacceptable," said Rep. Pramila Jayapal, D-Wash. "It was violent. It was sexist. And I do believe he needs to apologize. Not because it's going to make our colleague Ms. Ocasio-Cortez feel any better, but because he too needs to learn what unacceptable behavior looks like and rise to the level of the office that he has been elected to."

Speaking to reporters later on Thursday, House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy, R-Calif., said he thought Yoho's response was sufficient.

"In America, I know people make mistakes. We're a forgiving nation. I also think when someone apologizes, they should be forgiven," he said. "I don't understand that we're going to take another hour on the floor to debate whether the apology was good enough or not."

Asked if his party had a "women problem," McCarthy said there are more women in the Republican Party running for Congress than at any other time in history.

In her weekly press conference, House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, D-Calif., called Yoho's comments a "manifestation of attitudes in our society" and noted that she has been called offensive names for the past 18 years.

"The word I use for them is 'condescending' in addition to being disrespectful," Pelosi said.

"There's no limit to the disrespect or the lack of acknowledgement of the strength of women and nothing is more wholesome for our government, for our politics, for our country, than the increased participation of women and women will be treated with respect," she said.

Copyright 2020 NPR. To see more, visit https://www.npr.org.

RACHEL MARTIN, HOST:

It happened on the steps outside the Capitol building - Republican Representative Ted Yoho of Florida and Congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez of New York had words. And some of the words that Yoho reportedly directed at Ocasio-Cortez cannot be repeated on the radio. NPR's Barbara Sprunt has the story.

BARBARA SPRUNT, BYLINE: The House floor Thursday morning was filled with Democrats standing up for one of their own.

(SOUNDBITE OF MONTAGE)

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #1: Today, we take a stand for my colleague and friend, Ms. Ocasio-Cortez...

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #2: I rise today in support of my friend and colleague, Representative Ocasio...

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #3: And we will demand respect for Ms. Ocasio-Cortez...

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #4: This is about respect.

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #5: It is absolutely unacceptable.

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #6: ...Deserves a real apology.

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #7: He must apologize.

UNIDENTIFIED PERSON #8: Enough is enough.

SPRUNT: These comments came after Ocasio-Cortez described an exchange she had earlier in the week with Congressman Yoho.

(SOUNDBITE OF ARCHIVED RECORDING)

ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ: I was minding my own business walking up the steps, and Representative Yoho put his finger in my face. He called me disgusting. He called me crazy.

SPRUNT: Yoho was apparently referring to the Democrats' recent suggestion that poverty is linked to rising crime in New York City. Ocasio-Cortez said she told him his comments were rude and left. The news outlet the Hill reported that as Yoho walked away, he muttered a profanity and vulgar slur often aimed at women.

Although he did not mention her by name, Yoho apologized on the floor Wednesday for the, quote, "abrupt manner of conversation" he had with his New York colleague. He said he couldn't apologize for his passion over the issue of poverty, having experienced it himself.

(SOUNDBITE OF ARCHIVED RECORDING)

TED YOHO: Having been married for 45 years with two daughters, I'm very cognizant of my language.

(SOUNDBITE OF ARCHIVED RECORDING)

OCASIO-CORTEZ: Having a daughter does not make a man decent. Having a wife does not make a decent man. Treating people with dignity and respect makes a decent man.

SPRUNT: Ocasio-Cortez said she's someone's daughter, too.

(SOUNDBITE OF ARCHIVED RECORDING)

OCASIO-CORTEZ: My father thankfully is not alive to see how Mr. Yoho treated his daughter. My mother got to see Mr. Yoho's disrespect on the floor of this House towards me on television.

SPRUNT: Ocasio-Cortez said the incident highlights pervasive misogyny in society.

(SOUNDBITE OF ARCHIVED RECORDING)

OCASIO-CORTEZ: He gave permission to use that language against his wife, his daughters, women in his community. And I am here to stand up to say that is not acceptable.

SPRUNT: Yoho maintains he did not use profanity when speaking with her. House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy told reporters he thought Yoho's comments were sufficient.

(SOUNDBITE OF PRESS CONFERENCE)

KEVIN MCCARTHY: When someone apologizes, they should be forgiven.

SPRUNT: McCarthy said it was time to move on.

Barbara Sprunt, NPR News, Washington. Transcript provided by NPR, Copyright NPR.