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Emotions are complex but not always rational.
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When you are not the one who wanted the divorce, getting through losing your marriage is much harder than if you’re the one who wanted the divorce. It’s…
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In my office partners complain about their person being on the phone rather than paying attention to them. It’s not just teenagers who are glued to their…
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When you diminish your partner’s feelings, opinions, reactions…you only create resentment and resistance. People tell me they don’t say demeaning things…
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When your alcoholic partner gets sober, you expect to feel exuberant-you can relax and have the relationship you believed was possible. Only, that’s not…
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Using yourself as the frame from which to decide if someone else’s reactions are normal, is a really bad idea, yet it's something we all seem to do. We…
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No one escapes having regrets; the longer you live, the more you have. Regrets for a decision made, or a choice you didn’t make; regrets for foolish…
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With the instant access of cell phones, parents, especially mothers are complaining that when they contact their children, it can take hours or even an…
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Wonder why you’re more tired doing your work through video platforms like Zoom, Facetime, or Skype? You are more exhausted because the video platforms…
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Emotions and concerns about the future have been running high with the sequester and the pandemic. It’s natural, when listening to someone talk about…